Speeches should be properly planned with rehearsals and timing. Whatever style reception you choose, the speeches are part of the main highlights.
Speeches should be properly planned with rehearsals and timing. Whatever style reception you chose, the speeches are part of the main highlights. There are three speeches, the first given by someone who has known the bride for a long time, usually an uncle, godfather or an old family friend. This speech about the bride is best kept short and sweet. The groom gives the second speech, which again, is usually best kept short. The best man makes the final speech and this is usually the highlight. The speech should be witty and fun and delivered with confidence. There are usually a few anecdotes about the bridegroom, which should be light hearted.
Clearly you want to wow your audience and have them laughing in the right places for the right reasons. To achieve this it is vital that you prepare carefully.
Without thorough preparation and good material it is hard to deliver a good speech even if you practice lots.
Top tips
- Grab the attention of the guests and involve them so they 'anticipate' the story outcome or punch line.
- Be confident. You have prepared everything that could possibly be prepared for this moment. You have practiced a lot, your cards are in your hand, highlighted and underlined.
- Stand up. Wait for complete silence - don't be afraid of silences and pauses, they can be as eloquent as words. Don't hurtle into the speech to get it over with as quickly as possible.
- Establish eye contact with the audience.
